the human touch

in this new digital age of twitter, facebook, bbm, skype and the million other communication media and social networks, it is a lot easier to keep in touch with a lot more people. you are kept up to date as to the comings and goings of your friends, you can maintain contact with those in distant lands, and you can find long lost loves and friends whom you thought you would never see or hear from again.

that's great, right? or is it?

with communication taking this turn, yes we are kept abreast of what's what, but what we are losing, and missing out on is that basic human contact that you, me and everyone else needs. it is a basic human need, that feeling of love and belonging (maslows 3rd level thank you very much). human contact provides that acceptance that the digital age doesn't allow us.

i have two very good male friends. i can easily count them amongst my best friends. and whenever i leave them, i am filled with this feeling of hope, comfort, confidence, happiness, optimism, and just good old fashioned love. and no, i am not in love with either of these two, they are the kind of people who aren't remotely afraid of human contact. they are always there with a hug filled with good energy, touch your arm when they talk to you in order to fully engage with you, are around in your personal space. they are not only in contact with you with words, but also with their whole being.

and that is the essence of human contact, where you can completely envelope someone in whatever communication you are trying to achieve. it boosts your self esteem and makes you feel just grand. which is something that is slipping away quicker than i care to imagine thanks to this new digital age. don't get it twisted, i am appreciative of my facebook, twitter and skype accounts, but think that communication between people shouldnt stop there. there is more that can be said with a hug, than can ever be said via a QWERTY board.

this contact is an important component of growth and development of our species, and i fear that it is falling at the wayside. with human contact you can transfer a lot more energy from one person to the next, than any other way. human contact never lies like words do. it is the truth, and the truth that has a more positive effect on you than anything that you can do on your own.

so, even though we are all busy with our lives. trying to get somewhere. trying to run away from somewhere else. take a moment. give a hug. be open. and you will be surprised at the difference it makes. its some other kind of awesome.

*hug*

but hey, #imjussayin

rabi